When you are down and in trouble, seek help from Allah through solat (prayer) and sabar (patience). There are people who chose to be angry when misfortune fell upon them. The Prophet Muhammad SAW. said "be angry and be sined, and the misdeed will continue. Be patience and be rewarded even though the misdeed does not end". A strong person is one who control his anger when he is angry. A weak person is one who does the same mistake again and again and again. Waallahu aalam.